Oct 30, 2021Liked by Matt Gottesman

🔥🔥🔥🔥 I read this letter 4 times before I was able to gather ALL my reflections & take aways! This was so insightful on many levels.

“actively pursuing the validation of others takes up a lot more time than actively pursuing your purpose, which includes your creativity, your health, your wealth, your happiness and your impact.”- I really resonate with this statement in a more personal way! Most of my life I sought the validation of my brother. HAD TO HAVE IT. Now I know we had a deep trauma bond. Once I stopped seeking his validation and started living my life for me and pursing my passions life expanded in so many ways. Which is directly reflected in my business.

I also really resonate with building something that is purpose driven, intentional, adds value to people & produces income. Im currently experiencing this in real time, facilitating my work for a group of 50 women. It is fun and easy and so aligned. As I work through my money story that statement is so HUGE and I created it.

When you’re in acts of service, you’re solely focused on delivering value— I feel this sooo deeply. I’m going to have to expand in a voice message because I have a great story around this! 💚🙏🏼

Don’t over complicate things!!! 🔥🔥

“If you have to convince someone, you already lost.”- You said that at all the things business and it’s always repeated in my head. 👌🏽👌🏽

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